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Greetings! I come in peace as an Unbeliever/Seeker - irmadlad - 08-02-2026

Greetings! I come in peace as an unbeliever/seeker. I have many philosophical and theological questions about God. I have been told that Judaism invites open debate and questions. I don't want to have an argument, however, to fully understand these things I have pondered for a lifetime, one must fully examine every facet of Judaeo-Christian beliefs and in fact one must even question God in every facet. Debate is fine with me, however, I do not seek to argue with malice. I am not going to try to change your mind, quite the opposite. I shouldn't be able to if your convictions are true. I'm not going to ask gotcha questions to try to trip people up and have them contradict themselves to show what a hypocrite they are, or how silly their beliefs are. I respect a person who strives to live a morally upright life. 

Even tho I am an unbeliever, I have studied many religions: Mormonism, Taoism, Jainism, Buddhism. Four years ago I finished reading the Quran. I do not mention this in an attempt to show my vast religious intellect, but rather to give an idea of how far I have sought answers to my questions. I am most familiar with the Judaeo-Christian beliefs and that is where I would like to center this discussion. 

I realize, being on the internet, this forum must surely get a lot of cranks who just want to agitate and cause disruption. This is not my intent. This is a long discussion and I need someone, perhaps a Rabi, who is patient. I have many, many troubling questions. I beg of your patience.

I have written well over 500 emails to churches and synagogues in my area begging to discuss these things which weigh heavy on my mind. I have contacted many Christian forums, only to be met with resistance. It seems Christians, who say they know the way, who were commanded to go into all the world and preach the gospel, immediately take questioning to be a personal affront. This is not my intent at all. In fact, God commanded us to question. 

1 John 4:1: Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of God: because many false prophets are gone out into the world.

Isaiah 1:18: Come now, and let us reason together, saith the LORD.

My questions center around these topics:
  • Foreknowledge: God knew everything that would happen and created it anyway
  • Determination: Infallible foreknowledge means the future is fixed; free will is illusory
  • Design: Humans are punished for functioning as designed
  • Proportionality: Eternal punishment for finite, biologically driven infractions
  • Epistemology: Faith is non-distinguishing and unverifiable; This is crucial. Belief is conviction. Knowledge requires evidence
  • Geography: Religious belief is determined by birthplace, not truth

If some patient Rabi, or knowledgeable person could help me, I would greatly appreciate it. 

Thank you for your time.


RE: Greetings! I come in peace as an Unbeliever/Seeker - searchinmyroots - 08-02-2026

Hello and welcome to the forum.

Thank you for your introduction and honesty as to why you have joined us.

You may find different opinions here to answer your questions but yes, by all means, you can ask what you'd like.

I am not a Rabbi or an authoritative figure, but I have a few quick thoughts on some of your questions.
  • Foreknowledge: God knew everything that would happen and created it anyway
    To me, it's not that simple. First, we really cannot understand the nature of G-d. I believe He is the past, present and future so everything is on one even plain.
  • Determination: Infallible foreknowledge means the future is fixed; free will is illusory.
    Just because He knows the future (again, a nature we cannot understand), it doesn't mean we do not have free will. Maybe He sees what our choices are.
  • Design: Humans are punished for functioning as designed.
    I don't see it as being punished for functioning as designed. I see it as feeling the consequences of our choices that go against G-d's will.
  • Proportionality: Eternal punishment for finite, biologically driven infractions
    This is not really a Jewish thought.
  • Epistemology: Faith is non-distinguishing and unverifiable; This is crucial. Belief is conviction. Knowledge requires evidence
    Yes, what you are saying makes sense. But for some, just seeing how we and the world operates is knowledge that leads to belief
  • Geography: Religious belief is determined by birthplace, not truth
    Not sure I understand or agree with this statement.Again, these are just a few very quick thoughts. I and others may dive deeper.Good, fair questions!



RE: Greetings! I come in peace as an Unbeliever/Seeker - irmadlad - 08-02-2026

(08-02-2026, 11:15 PM)searchinmyroots Wrote: RE:  I and others may dive deeper

It is this 'deep dive' that I desire. This is not a condemnation of you personally, but I have found that most of the Christians I talk to are satisfied with casual knowledge: God created, God died, I believe, show me my mansion. I seek much more clarity than that. I assure you that this discussion will be lengthy and is not for the easily distracted. Again, I beg for your patience. I am an medically retired old head. I'm not sure if I am in the right sub-forum or place. If I am not, would you please direct me to the appropriate sub-forum or section for a discussion such as this. 

I notice that when you say 'God' you write it as G-d. If I remember correctly, it is to show reverence for the divine name. The idea being that the name of God is treated as especially sacred, so it’s spelled in a modified way. I do not wish to be disrespectful in any way, and if this vernacular is more conducive, then I will adjust accordingly. 

Thank you for your response, patience, and time.


RE: Greetings! I come in peace as an Unbeliever/Seeker - searchinmyroots - 08-03-2026

Thanks for your reply.

Please remember, this is a Jewish forum so we will answer from a Jewish perspective.

There are several Christian members here as well who can answer from their perspective, but I don't want it to turn into preaching.

Since we are past your introduction, a more suitable sub forum may be either Judaism General or World Religion.

I think it is fair and could be quite interesting to read replies from different religions, so maybe the World Religion sub forum would be best.

As for how I write G-d, that is a personal choice. No offense taken or adjustments need to be made if others write it differently.

I'm curious, do you have any replies to my short version answers?


RE: Greetings! I come in peace as an Unbeliever/Seeker - irmadlad - 08-03-2026

(08-03-2026, 02:19 PM)searchinmyroots Wrote: Please remember, this is a Jewish forum so we will answer from a Jewish perspective.

Understood. Of all the religions I've studied, I am embarrassed to say that Judaism isn't one of them. I have basic knowledge, but not in depth. As far as online forums, I've concentrated on the standard Baptist/Christian side, with less than stellar results. 

RE:  Since we are past your introduction, a more suitable sub forum may be either Judaism General or World Religion.
I think it is fair and could be quite interesting to read replies from different religions, so maybe the World Religion sub forum would be best.

If it's fine with you, I think I'll stick to the Judaism General, and if all goes well, I may branch out to World Religion. My reasoning being, I'm a bit hesitant to engage a whole plethora of religions at once. As mentioned, my results with Christians has been rather contentious and I feel it shouldn't be that way. We should be able to openly discuss our own beliefs, convictions, etc without condemnation, even if it's something that is outside of our comfort zone, or something we disagree with, pending that the discussion is cordial, mutual, gives consideration to both sides. It is my sincere desire for this discussion to finally be positive.

RE:  As for how I write G-d, that is a personal choice.

Fine. I just want to abide with respect to my surroundings. 

RE:  I'm curious, do you have any replies to my short version answers?

I do, but my answers may be a bit lengthy for the Introduction sub-forum. I will attempt to condense as much as possible:
  • Foreknowledge:God created Lucifer knowing he would try to pull a coup d'état on an infinite God without limitations. For a supernatural being, Lucifer was not very bright. I mean, I'm a mere mortal and I could have called that one in. However, God created Lucifer with express, explicit, infinite, foreknowledge, that:

    Lucifer would rebel. • God knew he would kick Lucifer out of heaven. • God knew that Lucifer would take a horde of angels with him. • God knew that their first stop would be planet Earth, specifically Eden. • God knew, there in the Garden of Eden, Lucifer would tempt the first two humans on the planet. • God knew that Adam and Eve would disobey him. • God knew that he would kick Adam and Eve out of the Garden of Eden. • God knew this very act would forever plunge the world into unspeakable pain, agony, sorrow, torture, death, wars, famines, pestilence. God knew this with express, explicit, infinite, foreknowledge, and He did it anyway!
  • Determination: I'm saying that if God knows something with certainty from eternity, it cannot happen otherwise. Not because of coercion, but because of the logical structure of infallible knowledge. If something could turn out differently, then God's foreknowledge would be wrong, and an omniscient God cannot be wrong. Therefore, whatever God knows will happen, and must happen. The future is fixed. Not open, not flexible, not contingent on human choices. Fixed. This distinction matters more than it might seem. There's a difference between saying the future is fixed - locked in place by the logical structure of infallible knowledge - and saying God determined it - actively willed and authored every outcome. The first is logical determinism. The second is theological determinism. I'm claiming both, and the bridge between them is this: God didn't just know what would happen. He chose to create a world He knew would unfold this way, when He could have created a different world, or no world at all. His creative act was a selection among possibilities, and He selected the one He knew would produce Lucifer, the Fall, 170 billion souls (estimated population of the world to date), and eternal torment for most of them. Foreknowledge makes the future unchangeable. The creative choice makes God responsible for the future He foreknew. He didn't just see the movie; He greenlit the production.
  • Proportionality: The standard theological defense is that the severity of an offense scales with the status of the one offended. Since God is infinite, the argument goes, sinning against an infinite God warrants infinite punishment. A crime against a king carries a harsher penalty than the same crime against a commoner. So a sin against the King of the Universe merits an infinite penalty. This sounds reasonable until you examine it. The severity of an offense is not determined solely by the rank of the victim. If I insult a king, the insult itself is still finite - it's a finite act by a finite being producing finite harm. What changes is the king's response. The king may choose to impose a disproportionate penalty, but that disproportionality reflects the king's power, not the magnitude of the offense. The infinity of the victim doesn't transfer infinity to the act. A lie is a lie whether it's told to a beggar or to God. It's a finite act committed by a finite being in a finite span of time.
    Furthermore, the analogy the theologians use - crime against a king - actually undermines their case. Even in human justice systems, which are imperfect by their own admission, we recognize that punishments should be proportional to the harm caused, not to the status of the victim.
  • Epistemology: In the Christian Bible it states: "That ye may know ye are the sons of God." In Job: "I know my redeemer liveth." But how do you know? Christians respond that it's faith. However, faith by its very nature and Biblical definition is the very absence of evidence. But I'll go even further and posit that 170 billion people (estimated population of the earth to date) have had, or do have, faith. Even the most obnoxious, militant atheist you've ever met. They too have faith. Did the attendees at the Jonestown massacre have faith? Yes! In fact they had Maxwell House faith. It was good to the last drop. Did the Hale-Bopp participants have faith? Absolutely. How about David Koresh and his followers? Did they have faith? Indeed they did. On and on we could go with examples. In fact, in these three examples, they had so much faith, they were willing to die for their convictions. They had faith. Everyone has faith. Faith is not unique and therefore, seemingly, not enough to bet an eternal soul on. I know the world is round in nature. I don't have faith it's round, I know it and I can prove it. I know the wind exists. I don't have faith it exists, I know it and can prove it, measure it, and predict it. 
  • Geography: I have always been struck by religions and their associated gods'/goddesses' very adherence to geography. For instance, if I were born in the Middle East, I would most certainly be Muslim, worship Allah fervently, and believe that Muhammad was His prophet. If I were born in India, I would most certainly be Hindu. If an Asiatic country, it could be any number of belief systems like Jainism, Taoism, Buddhism, and I would worship fervently many gods and goddesses. But I was born in America, and the predominant religious belief system in America is Christianity. Naturally, I would gravitate towards Christianity. This is why I say that all religions and their associated gods or goddesses feel the same to me. Sure, they all have different beliefs, different theologies, different ways of obtaining eternal reward and avoiding eternal damnation. However, when we boil the ox down to the bouillon cube, here is what they all say: "If you do not believe the way we do, the book we believe, and the God we believe in and so fervently worship, then you will not go to our eternal reward, but you will go to our eternal damnation." 

I feel really positive about this coming discussion, for really the first time. Questioning is Biblical. So, in my mind, we should at least let's stop pretending the questions don't exist. At least let's give them the dignity of honest answers, even if those answers are uncomfortable and may shake the foundations of everything we thought we believed. The most dangerous thing we can do with a truth claim that makes this much cosmic weight hang on our shoulders is to pretend we've answered the hard questions when we haven't.

Thank you so much for your time and patience. I will return, today, and start a thread in the Judaism General sub-forum.


RE: Greetings! I come in peace as an Unbeliever/Seeker - RabbiO - 08-03-2026

irmalad

If looking at my username you are curious, let me answer before you ask, yes I am.

I have not had a chance to read through your lengthy posts. I will try to so as soon as possible. Nor have I had a chance to read through the responses  posted by searchinmyroots.

One thing I would caution you about from the get-go. There are some questions to which one can give the Jewish answers. Many questions can, however, only be given a Jewish answer or several different Jewish answers. Judaism is not monolithic. There are difference between the movements and even within the movements.

I welcome you to the forum. Let's see how the discussions go. May your journey be pleasant and rewarding.

One quick note. I did see that you reference Lucifer in your most recent post. As you may know, Judaism does not believe in the devil. Judaism posits that Satan is a job title for an angel who serves G-d. 
 irmadlad


RE: Greetings! I come in peace as an Unbeliever/Seeker - searchinmyroots - 08-03-2026

irmalad,

Yes, I was going to add what RabbiO pointed out. There really aren't any Jewish answers that is all agreed upon, although you'll probably find that with most religions.

Here are more of MY thoughts - 

Foreknowledge- As RabbiO also pointed out, there is no such thing as Lucifer in Judaism. As a matter of fact, if I'm not mistaken, Lucifer doesn't appear in the Christian bible either. It was a name added later on. There is a Satan which most Christians translate as the devil, but again, that is specific to Christianity, not Judaism. The Satan is just one of G-d's messengers doing it's work to hopefully bring people closer to Him.


Determination: Why do you think if G-d knows what will happen that people don't have a free choice? I don't think He actively willed and authored every outcome. He may know the outcome, but we author it.

Proportionality: I think you may have overlooked something very important in the Hebrew bible - Forgiveness. There are many places where G-d forigves and sometimes without our repentance. I also see Christian theology in your statements when you refer to "infinite punishment". We do not believe people will go to an eternal hell except for maybe a few very extreme circumstances (and it's not a belief in hell, it's a soul that does not return). Sincere repentance is what G-d is looking for any sin.

Epistemology: In Judaism it's a little different, we call it Emunah which is more of a trust. Yes, people can believe in many things as emotions can take charge and there can also be many miracles in all religions (even for atheists). So who's belief is right? I guess we'll have to wait and find out! The number of believers really has nothing to do with it.

Geography I think that may have been the way of the world many, many years ago. But now with the ability to travel and the internet, geography may not be the deciding factor. You'll see the progression in history for many religions. Each may have had a starting point but most have expanded worldwide.

I would like to reiterate my thought on the nature of G-d. It is not something we humans can understand or fathom. It's kind of like being in the middle of the desert at night and looking up at the sky. Can you understand all of it? Does your existence make sense to you when you look out into the universe?

So the terms you and I use are human terms, ones we can relate to. G-d is on His own terms even though He does relate to us in many different ways. How can we understand something that is the past, present and future?


RE: Greetings! I come in peace as an Unbeliever/Seeker - irmadlad - 08-03-2026

Rabi:

Thank you sincerely for your reply. I apologize for my lengthy post. Brevity is not a strong point that I possess. It is difficult for me to express these things that trouble me in a few short sentences. I realize, being retired, I most likely have the most amount of disposable time than others. I realize others have schedules, daily lives, work. I make no demands on the immediacy of your comments.

Thank you for your warm welcome and for the hospitality I have been shown so far. It is, in all seriousness, a breath of fresh air. Good fortune has not been a friend in this matter. 

Thank you for your time, guidance, and I do beg of your patience.


RE: Greetings! I come in peace as an Unbeliever/Seeker - irmadlad - 08-04-2026

searchinmyroots

Forgive my ignorance. I was raised in a very oppressively religious, and quite abusive Christian environment. By the belt and by the book, as it were. I was once backhanded across the face for my arrogance in questioning an almighty God. Ever since, these questions that trouble me, have been with me which drives my reading into other religions to see how they compare and what are the common threads. As, I mentioned, of all the religions I've studied, I am embarrassed to say Judaism is not one of them. Perhaps that is my fault.

RE: So who's belief is right? I guess we'll have to wait and find out

That seems a bit late.


RE: Greetings! I come in peace as an Unbeliever/Seeker - BlueBird2 - 08-04-2026

(08-04-2026, 12:21 AM)irmadlad Wrote: searchinmyroots

Forgive my ignorance. I was raised in a very oppressively religious, and quite abusive Christian environment. By the belt and by the book, as it were. I was once backhanded across the face for my arrogance in questioning an almighty God. Ever since, these questions that trouble me, have been with me which drives my reading into other religions to see how they compare and what are the common threads. As, I mentioned, of all the religions I've studied, I am embarrassed to say Judaism is not one of them. Perhaps that is my fault.

RE: So who's belief is right? I guess we'll have to wait and find out

That seems a bit late.

Have you prayed and asked God to reveal Himself to you?