11-12-2019, 01:00 PM
My background is Catholic as well, so I can offer only an honest opinion. Concerning what it means to fall in love can't one just as easily fall out of love? Love founded on decision and commitment towards what is best for the other has a stronger chance of survival. Since he is Orthodox, it seems the responsibility would be on you to consider converting to Orthodox Judaism. Taking that step beyond just appreciating Judaism, to actually embracing what it means to be a people, in joining with your boyfriend, in all the religious and traditional commitments, is a process that may take many years. In my opinion, if you are unwilling to make that kind of commitment it may not be beneficial for either of you to stay together.