02-15-2020, 07:05 PM
I am sorry this is happening to you. I saw a doc of Orthodox men throwing urine on secular jewish girls aged about 7,8,9 going to school because they were not dressed in attire an orthodox child would be. They were not indecent by any measures. My point is within a whole population people may act like animals but certainly most people I don't think hate Judaism. That would be very absurd, but they may hate the thing that seems to be separated from the group. There was a croatian girl in a school once of predominately non Croatians, a few teased her mercilessly until she committed suicide. People can be evil, but Hashem calls for patience and is all knowing. Its important we separate ourselves from evil doers, even if it means living and working outside of your dreams and desires. I do think you should not stay in a place where wicked is abundant. It doesn't serve you a purpose. Also choose a wife that will be intelligent enough to know the praise of our creator is the most important thing, over occupation riches nationality.