In search of a Solomonic solution

[tonightwetaco]

Thanks for the question!

I understand the sentiment as I too had a Tallit from my Bar Mitzvah that was in my family. It was lent out and seemed to have disappeared.

I lean towards your brothers view to lend it as needed and the person who uses it the most should keep possession. After all, it is meant to be used.

I don't think splitting it in 2 is a "kosher" idea"!

But that's just my opinion, others here may think differently or have another solution.

You might want to confer with your local Rabbi who can also offer a solution that makes sense for all.

Thanks for providing your POV, searchinmyroots!