Anger Management

[Baruch]

Baruch.

Are you asking people to identify which of the four temperaments most likely fits their own personality?  And, after doing so how they then might be better prepared to develop an improved outlook towards other people?

I'm not sure exactly what I am asking.

I read the books, and am still filled with questions. The book would appear to be aimed at domestic arguing. When we argue it should be limited to the current problem. We don't need to back up into the past and rehash it all over again. We should not even use words like  " You Always " - " You Never ". Not only are those words untrue. They just complicate settling the argument.

But having our generalized anger being gauged is also unfair. We should make an effort to be conscience about anger. But on the other hand we should show anger at some situations. I really appreciate you, SMR, and Channalee for commenting. More questions will just mean more to think about when it comes to anger.

I don't know that we can help feeling anger. Even if we don't speak, is it still wrong ? Some types of anger are justified. Then perhaps we acquire a type of immunity at certain types of anger, and are no longer angry.

The 4th one " Those whom it is easy to anger, and hard to appease. " I can see where if that is a generalized mentality of a person they will live a horrible life. They also cause misery for other people.

I probably should have just asked for any additional comments.