Tzniut Modesty & general questions

[RabbiO]

When you convert to Judaism, you become a Jew. It isn't a set of beliefs. It is a way of life. It's a philosophy. It's a history. It's a people.

For this reason, you'll find it impossible to convert to Judaism and remain in a relationship with a Christian partner. Every rabbi (even Reform rabbis) will tell you that it's better for you NOT to convert in such a situation. 

You have misunderstood, I think, both the Conservative and Reform positions on this issue which are way more nuanced.

This is the most recent Conservative responsum on the subject - https://www.rabbinicalassembly.org/sites...verted.pdf

The most recent Reform responsum - https://www.ccarnet.org/responsa-topics/...a-gentile/