09-08-2024, 04:43 PM
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08 September 2024 query to Chabad Ask A Rabbi
As Orthodox Jews view marriage of a Jewish man with a Jewish woman is a reunion of two halves of the same Soul; however when a jewish person intermarries with non-jewish person-would after passing from this life to the next would such a person be judged by the L-d not only because of their refusal to marry their predesitned Jewish spouse but also because the chances are not good that any descendents would not be raised Jewish?
Received as query Ref No 6360852 8-Sept 2024
Received an answer No 6360582 9-Sept 2024
B"H
Hello
Your question is a thoughful and sensitive one. exploring the complexities of intermarriage and its implications in Jewish tradition.
In Judaism, the idea of marrying within the faith is rooted in the belief that a Jewish man and Jewish woman are reunited soulmates, as you mentioned.
Beyond this idea, intermarriage is forbidden due to concerns about the potential impact on the spiritiual continuity of the Jewish people.
The biblical source for this prohibition is Deuteronomy 7:3 (https://www.chabad.org/9971), which warns against marrying non-Jews.
The very next verse, 7: 4, explains the reasoning:"For He will turn away your son from Me, and they will worship the gods of others..."
This passage highlights the concern that intermarriage may lead to assimilation and abandonment of Jewish practices and beliefs, potentially affecting future generations.
Regarding judgement in the afterlife, Jewish tradition emphasizes G-d's compassion and understanding.
While choices have consequences, the focus in this world is on personel growth, repentence, and the pursuit of righteousness.
May this clarification provide further insight into the complexities of intermarriage of intermarriage in Jewish tradition.
We have other resources on our site to assist in further exploration of this topic:
On Dating & Marrying Jewish https://www.chabad.org/145413
All the best,
Rabbi Dov Stein
New book from Chabad.org
Letters for Life:Guidence for Emotional Wellness
Inspired by the teachings of the Lubavitcher Rebbe
Learn more at https://www.chabad.org/Books
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
More on the silent holocaust of Intermarriage
https://www.chabad.org/library/article_c...rriage.htm
also see message #18 at this post:
https://www.thehebrewcafe.com/forum/show...hp?tid=680&page=2
Link of interest:
https://www.chabadgreenwich.org/template...21/month/8
3/1/2025 query to Ask a Rabbi Chabbad 6512148
As a Jewish marriage of a Jewish man with a Jewish woman is looked upon as reunion of two halves of the same Soul [Eve was brought from Adam]; thus if any married Jewish man or woman has a adulterous out of marrige relationship is such action considered an act of arrogant contempt of Rebellion against the L-D?
3/5/2025 answer to query from Ask A RAbbI 6512148
Dov Stein | Chabad.org
11:24 AM (11 hours ago)
to me
B"H
Hello,
In Jewish tradition, marriage between a Jewish man and woman is indeed often viewed as the reunion of two halves of the same soul, based on the concept of Adam and Eve's creation. This idea is rooted in mystical teachings, which suggest that a soul's heavenly source has male and female halves that are incarnated into the world as a man and a woman.
From this spiritual understanding of marriage, adultery is considered a serious transgression in Judaism. It is not only a violation of the marital covenant but also a disruption of the soul's unity that marriage is meant to achieve. Adultery is viewed as a grave sin that goes against the divine plan for human relationships. The act of adultery is seen as more than just a personal betrayal; it is considered a rebellion against G-d's commandments and the sacred nature of marriage. In Jewish law, adultery is one of the few sins for which one is obligated to sacrifice one's life rather than transgress.
It's important to note that Judaism emphasizes the possibility of repentance and return to righteous living, even after serious transgressions.
All the best,
Rabbi Dov Stein
The joyous holiday of Purim begins Thursday evening, March 13 and continues through Friday, March 14 (extending over Shabbat in Jerusalem). The Fast of Esther is observed on Thursday, March 13.
Check out https://www.chabad.org/purim for your one-stop shop for everything Purim: How-to, insights, delectable recipes, fun for kids and kids at heart and much more!
On 15 September 2024 sent the following query to Chabbad Ask a Rabbi:
Query about Davis son Absalom-
1) Does the Torah/Talmud explain why David concubines were singled out as to be part of the L-Ds punishment of David of Absalom literal downfall from life?
2) Is a lesson to be learned of the consequences from Absalom life is that his lust for power was so deep that he engaged in acts of chillul hashem and brought upon himself 4 curses from the Torah? (Dishonoring his father by his revolt; dishonoring his father's wives; and twice bring curses on himself for not fulfilling the Torah law)?
Sincerely
T.F
On 27 September 2024 received an answer:No 6369165:
Hi
1) The concubines were not punished by G-d. They were violated by Absalom. Absalom with his own free will, choose to do that. It is true G-d created a world where we humans can choose good or evil, but the choice in the end remains ours.
Although G-d had told David that his wives would be taken, he did not ordain or force Absalom to violate them. He just foretold it.
2) Yes. He was a prince who could had almost anything. The only things he wanted were things he could not have. He lusted after his sister and his father's throne.
Wealth is not determined by possessions but by mindset. In his mind, Absalom was a pauper. He only looked at what he did not have.
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As Orthodox Jews view marriage of a Jewish man with a Jewish woman is a reunion of two halves of the same Soul; however when a jewish person intermarries with non-jewish person-would after passing from this life to the next would such a person be judged by the L-d not only because of their refusal to marry their predesitned Jewish spouse but also because the chances are not good that any descendents would not be raised Jewish?
Received as query Ref No 6360852 8-Sept 2024
Received an answer No 6360582 9-Sept 2024
B"H
Hello
Your question is a thoughful and sensitive one. exploring the complexities of intermarriage and its implications in Jewish tradition.
In Judaism, the idea of marrying within the faith is rooted in the belief that a Jewish man and Jewish woman are reunited soulmates, as you mentioned.
Beyond this idea, intermarriage is forbidden due to concerns about the potential impact on the spiritiual continuity of the Jewish people.
The biblical source for this prohibition is Deuteronomy 7:3 (https://www.chabad.org/9971), which warns against marrying non-Jews.
The very next verse, 7: 4, explains the reasoning:"For He will turn away your son from Me, and they will worship the gods of others..."
This passage highlights the concern that intermarriage may lead to assimilation and abandonment of Jewish practices and beliefs, potentially affecting future generations.
Regarding judgement in the afterlife, Jewish tradition emphasizes G-d's compassion and understanding.
While choices have consequences, the focus in this world is on personel growth, repentence, and the pursuit of righteousness.
May this clarification provide further insight into the complexities of intermarriage of intermarriage in Jewish tradition.
We have other resources on our site to assist in further exploration of this topic:
On Dating & Marrying Jewish https://www.chabad.org/145413
All the best,
Rabbi Dov Stein
New book from Chabad.org
Letters for Life:Guidence for Emotional Wellness
Inspired by the teachings of the Lubavitcher Rebbe
Learn more at https://www.chabad.org/Books
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
More on the silent holocaust of Intermarriage
https://www.chabad.org/library/article_c...rriage.htm
also see message #18 at this post:
https://www.thehebrewcafe.com/forum/show...hp?tid=680&page=2
Link of interest:
https://www.chabadgreenwich.org/template...21/month/8
3/1/2025 query to Ask a Rabbi Chabbad 6512148
As a Jewish marriage of a Jewish man with a Jewish woman is looked upon as reunion of two halves of the same Soul [Eve was brought from Adam]; thus if any married Jewish man or woman has a adulterous out of marrige relationship is such action considered an act of arrogant contempt of Rebellion against the L-D?
3/5/2025 answer to query from Ask A RAbbI 6512148
Dov Stein | Chabad.org
11:24 AM (11 hours ago)
to me
B"H
Hello,
In Jewish tradition, marriage between a Jewish man and woman is indeed often viewed as the reunion of two halves of the same soul, based on the concept of Adam and Eve's creation. This idea is rooted in mystical teachings, which suggest that a soul's heavenly source has male and female halves that are incarnated into the world as a man and a woman.
From this spiritual understanding of marriage, adultery is considered a serious transgression in Judaism. It is not only a violation of the marital covenant but also a disruption of the soul's unity that marriage is meant to achieve. Adultery is viewed as a grave sin that goes against the divine plan for human relationships. The act of adultery is seen as more than just a personal betrayal; it is considered a rebellion against G-d's commandments and the sacred nature of marriage. In Jewish law, adultery is one of the few sins for which one is obligated to sacrifice one's life rather than transgress.
It's important to note that Judaism emphasizes the possibility of repentance and return to righteous living, even after serious transgressions.
All the best,
Rabbi Dov Stein
The joyous holiday of Purim begins Thursday evening, March 13 and continues through Friday, March 14 (extending over Shabbat in Jerusalem). The Fast of Esther is observed on Thursday, March 13.
Check out https://www.chabad.org/purim for your one-stop shop for everything Purim: How-to, insights, delectable recipes, fun for kids and kids at heart and much more!
On 15 September 2024 sent the following query to Chabbad Ask a Rabbi:
Query about Davis son Absalom-
1) Does the Torah/Talmud explain why David concubines were singled out as to be part of the L-Ds punishment of David of Absalom literal downfall from life?
2) Is a lesson to be learned of the consequences from Absalom life is that his lust for power was so deep that he engaged in acts of chillul hashem and brought upon himself 4 curses from the Torah? (Dishonoring his father by his revolt; dishonoring his father's wives; and twice bring curses on himself for not fulfilling the Torah law)?
Sincerely
T.F
On 27 September 2024 received an answer:No 6369165:
Hi
1) The concubines were not punished by G-d. They were violated by Absalom. Absalom with his own free will, choose to do that. It is true G-d created a world where we humans can choose good or evil, but the choice in the end remains ours.
Although G-d had told David that his wives would be taken, he did not ordain or force Absalom to violate them. He just foretold it.
2) Yes. He was a prince who could had almost anything. The only things he wanted were things he could not have. He lusted after his sister and his father's throne.
Wealth is not determined by possessions but by mindset. In his mind, Absalom was a pauper. He only looked at what he did not have.
Rosh Hashanah begins Wednesday evening, October 2 and continues through Friday after nightfall, October 4, seguing directly after Shabbat.
Read all about the Rosh Hashanah observances and traditions, find Shofar blowing and holiday services near you, explore handy guides, insights, recipes and all things Rosh Hashanah at https://www.chabad.org/newyear
--------------------------
Please join our High Holiday Campaign
In the past year, millions turned to Chabad.org for help and resources
Please help Chabad continue to serve you, and millions of others
Please make a contribution here: https://www.chabad.org/tools/donate_dona...ck-6369165
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